Livora Gracely

Writing to remember, sharing to inspire

The little head appeared slowly.

First the ears.

Then two enormous eyes.

Then a nose.

The rest of the kangaroo remained somewhere inside a place that, from the outside, seemed far too small to contain an entire child.

The joey looked around.

Australia was still there.

Very large.

Very bright.

And, judging by those eyes, requiring further investigation.

Fortunately, the emergency exit was also the entrance.

One small movement backward and the entire world could disappear again.

The Best Window

For a young joey, its mother’s pouch is more than transportation.

It is home with a window.

From inside, the world can be approached gradually.

Look out.

Observe.

Retreat.

Try again later.

There is something wonderfully sensible about this arrangement.

Humans often imagine courage as stepping completely into the unknown.

A joey offers another version.

Sometimes courage begins with only your head outside.

That counts.

Carried Without Knowing

The little kangaroo has traveled farther than its own feet could possibly manage.

Its mother moves.

The joey arrives.

Across dry ground.

Through grass.

Into shade.

Away from danger.

The passenger contributes remarkably little to navigation.

It simply stays close.

There are seasons of life like this.

We remember where we arrived but not everything that carried us there.

Someone woke earlier.

Someone worked longer.

Someone noticed the danger first.

Someone made decisions we were too young to understand.

Much of childhood is a journey taken inside another person’s care.

Two Worlds

The pouch creates an unusual border.

Inside is warmth.

Outside is possibility.

The joey belongs to both.

That will become increasingly complicated.

Soon curiosity will pull harder.

The ground will become interesting.

Those enormous feet will eventually discover what they were designed to do.

There will be first hops.

Then longer ones.

Then distances its mother cannot travel on its behalf.

But independence does not begin by rejecting safety.

It grows from safety.

The little explorer looks outward precisely because there is somewhere safe behind it.

Not Forever

One day, the pouch will become too small.

Not because it changed.

Because the joey did.

That is the strange success hidden inside every good shelter.

Eventually, the one being protected outgrows it.

Parents experience this repeatedly.

The hand that once needed holding pulls away to explore.

The child who once searched the room for a familiar face walks through a door alone.

Love begins by making a safe place.

Then love performs its more difficult work:

it allows that place to become unnecessary.

For now, none of that concerns the joey.

Only its head is outside.

Its tiny paws rest on the edge of home.

The world is enormous.

Mother is close.

That is enough courage for one morning.

A safe beginning does not make the world smaller.
It gives a small heart somewhere to stand while discovering how big the world can be.

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One response to “Safe Beginnings”

  1. just call me Sharon Avatar

    “Then love performs its most difficult work”. Striking way to word that. Love it!

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